i had this friend in high school, he had like the hottest chick in school as his girlfriend, and he didn't even try. He even treated the girl like she was dirt sometimes. that always made me curious, "what the heck does she see in him?". haha. but it seems that under that "bad boy" mask the dude had, he really understood the way the world goes round, get what i mean?
its because he understands the 3 LAWS OF ATTRACTION. ( bet even Isaac Newton didn't know these, lol)
Today I'm going to share the three most important laws of attracting women(i think, haha).
ATTRACTION LAW 1: "Gimme my game!"
There was this game for my X-box that I had been waiting for some time to get. The reviews were looking good, and the day before the release I saw that it got a really great review from some game site.
So the next day I go to the Best Buy and ... the release date was printed wrong! It wasn't going to be in until the next day.
No big whoop. I just went home and came back the next day. (That night I had a dream about the game. Obviously I was really looking forward to it.)
So I go back at 9:00 AM - as the doors open - and I ask for the game. "Won't be in until 2:00 PM," the clerk says to me.
ARgggggrrrrr....
Okay, so now I've come here 2 times for the game, and I have to come back again????
Now I'm really starting to think the universe was trying to keep me from having this game.
I call over to another game store in the area. Same story - "It won't be in until later this afternoon..."
More frustration.
I go home, and get some more work done. I'm checking my watch every hour.
And then at 2:00, I go back to the Best Buy and head straight for the X-box section.
And it's STILL not there!
AAAAAHH!
I ask a clerk for the game, and he sends me back up front where the games were being held in a "secure" location. (Seems to me that you can't sell something that you're hiding from your customers, but oh well.)
So how do you think when I finally had that game in my hand?
VICTORY! I had WON!
You bet I felt a sense of accomplishment at having finally found it and bought it. And I also clutched it in my tight little fist as i waited for the Saturday shuttle to come by (i really should be saving to by a car, haha), just in case someone would try to pry it out of my hands...
Right about now you're wondering what this has to do with how to get a girl to like you, but stay with me...
There IS an important lesson here - beyond learning about how to not get so hung up on a game.
This was the exact same thing that happened to me when I wanted a woman that I didn't think I could get. I'd get fixated ("obsessed" is probably a better word) on her, and then I'd fall into the exact same pattern.
I'd call her, and if she didn't answer, I couldn't stop thinking about who she was with and what she was doing.
Or I'd ask her out, and if she couldn't make the date, or she cancelled, I'd get even MORE attracted to her.
I would raise my fist to the heavens and shout: "By the powers of Gromthar, I shall possess her!"
A bit melodramatic, but you get the idea, don't you?
This is the FIRST rule of attraction:
We want what we cannot have.
The more we can't have it, the more we become fixated on it.
This is the principle of CHALLENGE you must use to get a girl to like you on a level that she won't even understand.
A woman will be driven to complete distraction by a man she feels is just outside her grasp. Of course, there has to be some element of HOPE in that mix, but humans are interesting in that we can create hope that doesn't even exist.
Use this principle for YOU.
Be a little LESS available than a woman wants you to be early on.
And this doesn't have to be something you do on purpose - as some kind of manipulative ploy. I don't condone that. That's not how to get a girl to like you in any honorable way.
It should be NATURAL.
Trust me on this one: Scarcity only makes the heart grow fonder.
ATTRACTION LAW #2: "Just a little Memento..."
I was at home the other day, just flicking through the channels, killing time. ( damn i wished i'd studied for the two exams coming up)
Then this movie came on that I hadn't seen before called "Memento." I was lucky to have caught it at the start of the movie, and I found myself completely absorbed by the story.
(If you haven't seen this movie, run out and rent it RIGHT NOW. It's that good.)
It wasn't particularly suspenseful in the way that a movie with a woman walking down a dark corridor is suspenseful, but it held me fast in its grip.
If you don't know how this movie goes, or you haven't seen it in a while, basically the movie is about a guy who has no long-term memory due to a head injury. The story is told in 3 or 4 minute "flashbacks" of memory that mimics his disorder. So we learn things the way he does.
The whole time I'm watching, I'm wondering:
- Who's the guy on the phone with him?
- Who is he looking for?
- How did he wind up with that car?
And each new flashback answers some of the questions of the previous scene, but then it creates ALL NEW ONES!
I don't think my eyes left the screen until it was all over.
Even then, I wanted to watch it again just to make sure I figured everything out.
And then I spent the next week telling everyone in my social network to watch the movie.
What's the lesson here?
If we DON'T know what's going to happen, we find it attractive.
We want to find out what happens...
This is the law of UNPREDICTABILITY.
It is completely captivating to have an unpredictable story that you simply MUST find out what happens.
ATTRACTION LAW #3: "She will come around..."
If it's perceived as establishing safety and comfort - we are attracted to it.
I have a lot of friends that started from being friend to good firends, then close friends, then boyfriends and girlfrieds, and some of em even evolved into siamese twins (they'll always be together, i mean always!! haha). Its true that different people are attracted to different kinds of things and usually one couple wont have the same love story with another, but out of talking with em, the had a similar pattern. They either eat regularly, skype regularly, have dinner together regularly, or anything else that ends with regularly. They feel safe and comfortable with each other, and eventually, it hit's the big question whether they want to go 'exclusive' or not. this goes to show the third law:
This is the law of SAFETY & CONSISTENCY.
Yes, I realize that Law #2 and Law #3 seem to be contradictory, and that's why you have to use them together for maximum effect.
The standard Pickup logic may not support this, but I'm here to tell you that if a person is exposed to your presence regularly enough (but not to extremes), they will start to miss you when you're not around, and they will feel a burning attraction begin to build for you.
Again, this has to be done with the right method and in the right intensity, otherwise it will fizzle out into "friendship" territory.
These 3 Laws of Attraction are POWERFUL. If you want to know how to get a girl to like you, simply learn how to use these three laws to your advantage with every woman you meet. Ahahaha, just kidding. Im just sharing what I have with the brotherhood. The truth is, there is no exact law. Every woman is another INDIVIDUAL, basically that means, their different. IT TAKES A DIFFERENT KEY TO OPEN A DIFFERENT DOOR, right? so goodluck guys!! haha.
yours truly.
